This is only the beginning!

Gender Dreaming is back, baby!

As many of you noticed, Gender Dreaming, the site where I’ve been answering all your questions about methods of natural gender selection - aka “swaying” - since 2010, had been down for the past couple of weeks. I am so pleased to report that the site is restored and I am once again answering all your questions on gender swaying, trying to conceive naturally and via IVF/PGD, gender desire and disappointment just like I have for over a decade. Like I’ve said in the past, Gender Dreaming is my Internet home, I love the community we all built there, and I’ll be hanging out on Gender Dreaming till they turn the lights out on me.

That having been said, contrary to popular belief, I don’t own Gender Dreaming. I don’t handle anything technical on the site, I simply show up to work there every day just like other people might go to the office. I don’t have any ability to fix problems, I can’t activate anyone’s accounts or give refunds, nor have I been informed about what happened the last few weeks. Because of the promises I have made to you all to help you get the baby you’ve been dreaming of, I feel it’s necessary to continue forging ahead with other ways for you to keep in touch with me should the site ever go down permanently. People need my help, and I promised them that I would help them. That’s exactly what I intend to continue doing.

A few years ago, after the site went down a different time, my husband insisted that I repost the essays that I spent thousands of hours writing on a blog that I controlled. We kept this blog private and only took it public a few days ago, when it seemed like perhaps Gender Dreaming was gone for good. You can find that blog here: atomic sagebrush's Complete Gender Swaying Library. I’m leaving it public because a few people have used it over the last week and told me that it helpful, having a spot that was JUST essays without the forum posts.

I’m in the process of reformatting the most commonly used essays/guides, publishing them in my Gender Swaying Library for you guys to peruse at your leisure. The background science and diet info is already up, and I should have the timing essays posted within the next couple of days. Be sure to click on the “Blog” button at the top of the welcome page to access the posts - there are already about fifty available. This blog is only a COMPLEMENT to Gender Dreaming, not a replacement. I will NOT answer questions on the blog. I only answer questions on Gender Dreaming.

I’m also forging ahead with this Substack, where I’ll be posting my shorter essays - and writing new ones based on commonly asked questions. If you subscribe - which is free - you can have a nice short essay covering something you were wondering about pop up in your inbox a couple times a week. I will try to post two or three articles weekly, some new, some you may have missed, straight to your Inbox. But again, this is just a bonus to the massive amount of information already available on Gender Dreaming, where I’ll continue answering everyone’s gender swaying questions just as I always have. The blog and the Substack are just another way to keep in touch, and to help my readers and my clients better navigate what has gotten to truly be a LOT of information over the years.

Regardless of the future of the Gender Dreaming site, I very much appreciate everything that site owner has done for us over the years, giving us a safe place to come together and discuss not only swaying, but gender desire/disappointment, fertility, and so much more. People made lifelong friendships there. Gender Dreaming has always been women coming together to support one another in good times and bad and it is my very great hope it continues on well into the future. Gender Dreaming is such a great resource and I am so happy to see it back again!

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